At that particular moment of judgment we just choose only one half of ourselves....... ..as we simply choose the aura of sun discarding the beauty of moon ....darkness of night has it's own depth and silence... ..
As we go on nurturing only a single face of life ....simply another face gets darker by and by and a moment comes when we are afraid to open ourselves for the darker sides ....
so whole problem is with the judgments.. when we start judging things and people ......we simply do the same thing with ourselves. We go on judging our thoughts , actions , what is good , what is bad etc . etc . this creates duality and conflicts in our minds .
When we meet someone our mind starts working in the direction of judgments off what is good in us and what is better in us? ...and we start criticizing others .. just because it gives a good feeling ...it's just the thing that gives everybody the pleasure for a fraction of time . All these things flatter our ego and from that moment we start rejecting ourselves and our identity . We forget that every individual is so unique that comparison or criticism is simply meaningless. We can never compare the beauty of ROSE with the beauty of LOTUS.
As we all are human being ..we don't have right to judge right or wrong . Because criticism doesn't need much intelligence .. everything we decide just to satisfy our false ego .........
it's better to drop all the egos ! ! because we have knit our whole world around the ego and we actually are the victims of that web...there may be the situations ...same person whom , we might have criticized at a particular point ....in certain situations ..we feel a great compassion for her/him , a great love , a great desire to help .........it's all about our outlook towards life and cirumstances..........
now, if we simply create the beautiful harmony between day and night , life and death , love and hate or anythings that seem to be at the polar opposites .............. Wholeness in everything is the part of life... whenever we see rosebush first thought that comes into our mind is that how to remove thorns because they may harm you or the roses itself .. if we change our way of thinking like " i always think if thorns would not be there to protect roses .. would roses be able to reach the extreme of their beauty ? NO!!! ! because they always protect them as a guard ........ Thorns in rose have their own beauty ."
If we bound ourselves only to the good side ....everything becomes too boring . If we view things as a whole .. they seem more lively , beautiful and vibrant.
If we start living whole heartedly ...living day as well as the night ..living beautiful moments as well as the darker ones ...we make everything so complementry that everything fits together and becomes a piece of art and beauty .
SO ENJOY LIFE IN IT'S FULL COLORS !!!!!!!
